Careful!

When I was a sophomore in high school, I enrolled in the first of many Shakespeare classes of my academic career. In addition to trying to teach us a bit about the literature, Mrs. Brandon, an enthusiastic and passionate teacher, tried to give us a little perspective on things, no small task for an audience of teenagers. I could almost grasp that the Elizabethans had a different world view, but scoffed when she admonished us, “If you’re careful enough, nothing good or bad will ever happen to you!”

But in the past few years, as the culture of fear has grown tentacles that reach into seemingly all corners of our lives, I find myself repeating Mrs. Brandon often. I shake my head when I pick up Mothering Magazine and read how C-sections are on the rise again, as each woman is convinced that it’s the safest thing to do. I groan at the admonition in the Hanna Andersson catalog that I must make sure my children’s organic cotton long johns are tight-fitting, since loose clothing is more likely to catch on fire, and I have (apparently unwisely) chosen untreated pajamas.

When we went to adopt Hannah, we quickly learned that no animal adoption agency will allow a cat to go home with a family that intends to let it outside. Interview forms contain a trick question about the indoor/outdoor intentions of the family; flyers posted prominently shout that the lifespan of an outdoor cat is considerably shorter than that of an indoor cat. I think back on all the cats I have had: only one died “young,” a runty kitten rescued from being drowned for her birth defect. Her palsy certainly contributed to her demise far more than her outside habits. Indeed, she was never happier than when romping outdoors.

Wednesday evening, as I cut real butter into flour for pastry and my Darling Husband put together spaghetti for supper, I reached for the bottle of red and grabbed a wine glass to share from the drain board. It was one of the oversized balloon stems that I purchased for the auction rather than our everyday stemware. My Darling sighed and said we shouldn’t use them; they might break, especially because they were hand-wash only. I assumed the hands-on-hip stance I learned from Mrs. Brandon, and reminded him that there was a reason for the shape of the glass. It was designed not to fit into a dishwasher, but rather, to allow your nose to fit into it, doubling the sensory input when sipping wine. I handed him the glass, and he tried it. And smiled. It does taste better this way, notes he.

I print out a recipe for stuffing for some guidance on proportions, and happen to glance down at the instructions for cooking it. There it is, in black and white: we do not recommend cooking stuffing in the bird. Apparently, it is safer to cook the stuffing in a casserole dish, and moisten it with stock. We shall not do this, however, because the payoff of stuffing a heritage turkey with local artisan bread is far too tempting to pass up. Yes, I shall risk it, as so many things in my life, for if I am not careful, I shall find joy.

Local magic

The setup happened a few weeks ago, but the magic began last night.

A random email from by my friend Patti inviting us to Thanksgiving piqued my interest. We never really celebrate this all-American festival, because, well, we’re not all American. Sure, Darling Husband loves stuffing like nobody’s business, but he didn’t grow up surrounded by the holiday and all the trimmings: maiden aunts pinching your cheek, Mom melting down over misbehaving pie crust dough, arguments over giblets in the gravy, and sitting at the card table until your knees were up to your ears. My tiny family is nowhere in evidence this year, so we immediately said yes.

The setup is a potluck among friends who’ve never met, but who agreed that it was to be a local feast, in celebration of the turkeys Patti was growing. If all went according to plan, they were slaughtered this Monday, along with a few chickens for her freezer. Someone else will bring the pumpkin pie, so we will provide the stuffing and alternate pie. Sourcing is easy: My family loves bread, but the rotation means that we don’t always eat the whole loaf before it turns to stone. The odd ends get pushed to the back of the bread box all year, and we haul them out at Thanksgiving. By this time each year, it’s hard to fit even a single loaf in the breadbox, but this year, there’s room for two, so I bought an extra loaf to dry out.

It’s clear that my traditional water chestnuts stuffing isn’t sourced locally, so I asked around: truly Northwest stuffing, it seems, contains oysters, of both the shellfish and mushroom variety. I hunted on the Epicurious, that wonderful site that saves me digging through piles of magazines, and if gave me quite a few ideas (and a chuckle from the one cook who said “this stuffing was too much work; next year, we’ll go back to Stovetop.”).

Our first Thanksgiving as a couple, I made a pumpkin pie (that’s a story in its own right), and my Darling then-Boyfriend gobbled most of it up. And was sick, no surprise. Now I make sure there’s a second pie just for him, usually pecan, usually (gasp!) purchased. The rest of us enjoy my homemade pumpkin pie, sweetened with molasses and spiced with ginger. But pecans are not local, and filberts don’t cut it. So I thunk and I thunk until I got it. Those peaches from last August will be the alternate pie. A sprinkle of cardamom and cinnamon (we agreed spices were a worthwhile exception to the local rule). With flour from Stone Buhr, butter from Wilcox, we’re bringing peach pie and ice cream (vanilla bean, from Alden’s).

Before I went to bed last night, I dug in the freezer: out came the bag of peaches (weren’t we smart to slice them up!), a pound of sausage for tonight’s sgabhetti, and a small package of smoked chum salmon from Fishing Sensei, which will pair with a local goat cheese as a small appetizer offering both tomorrow and Friday evening, when we’re invited to British Neighbor’s for drinks. I also tucked a few bottles of Columbia Valley Semillon (Fidélitas, 2006) in the fridge to honor the birds.

This morning, when I got up, I climbed in with Little One, who rolled over, and said in a voice unfuzzed by morning sleepiness, “When we die, we go up and become part of God. And then we fly around and we’re fairies.” Indeed, the Tooth Fairy also paid a visit last night, to an increasingly skeptical but nonetheless affectionate Number One. The air is positively thick with magic, which bodes well for making pie crust.

Bus karma

I’d love to write about our chock-filled Saturday, but a wave of exhaustion overwhelms me when I even look at the calendar. Suffice it to say we were all so tired that the single event we had planned for Sunday would have been easy to blow off.

Number One Son and I had tickets to the Youth Symphony concert downtown. I love Benaroya Hall; its open spaces, cushy seats and soaring glass art help heal my weary soul. But spending time idling in a line of cars to get in and out of the parking garage undoes much of the good, so we’ve taken to riding the bus. In the past, it has been less than soothing, trying to comprehend the Byzantine routes and fare schedules, but yesterday we hit pay dirt.

The bus was, amazingly, on time, but waited for the fellow who had to dash from the transit center across the freeway. Our driver was far from the public transit stereotype: positively cordial, welcoming each person, helpful and knowledgeable. The bus moved smoothly, not lurching and throwing standing passengers. I found myself relaxing.

Unsure of which cross street we needed, Number One took it upon himself to ask: Superdriver informed us to get off a block later, so the two blocks to Benaroya would be downhill—that’s what he did, he said. We arrived in good spirits and early, so we treated ourselves to a couple of toasty peppermint hot chocolates before the downbeat.

The concert itself was wonderful: I continue to be impressed and inspired by the kids and the organization. The new Musical Director, Stephen Rogers Radcliffe, first caught my attention not for his pro-wrestler shoulders, but his musing to parents. Here was a seemingly mainstream voice telling people to buy their kids a violin instead of a computer—it’s better for their brains and social development. Clearly, he takes his own advice: I noted that there was no podium between him and the musicians, as he conducted Tchaikovsky’s Pathétique from memory. I also noted that he assigned the program notes to various musicians. Bravo.

As the finale “ends with a moan” (Schoenberg), he let the sound go, never actually cutting off his musicians. We all breathe a collective sigh and head out into the chill evening, our souls cleansed by Tchaikovsky’s catharsis. As we arrive at the bus stop to catch the 5:01, a clock chimes the hour. After twenty minutes of watching each others’ breath, a bus finally arrives. We merge onto a clogged freeway, and the driver comes on over the loudspeaker: sorry for being so late, and that the bus is so full and traffic is so bad. When we arrive at your stop, please feel free to disembark using both the back and front doors. And don’t worry about the fare this evening, folks.